Chinese Marriage since 1950s (Part 1: In 1950s) |
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![]() From 1950s, most Chinese people's marriages in a particular period were established according to a set of standards generally recognized by the public in that period. Standards for marriages tend to vary from time to time and place to place. While eating habits, fashions, hairstyles and furniture styles reflect the features of a society in a certain period of time, marital standards can do better in this respect. From the marital standards pursued in a certain period of time, we can learn what the government encourages, what the news media advocate and what the people seek in that period. After the foundation of the People's Republic of China in 1949, the old marriage system set up on the basis of the old social system was pushed towards an end. But marriage as a folk custom could not have been replaced by a thoroughly ![]() From mid 1950s to 1975 when the Anti-Rightists Movement was launched, marriages among intellectuals were mostly affectional instead of political or economical. Many couples had been good playmates since childhood. Unfortunately, they were later criticized for their "petty bourgeois sentiment." In mid 1950s, male workers and technicians put in first place such qualities as industriousness, sincerity and honesty when they were seeking their mates. In town, though the idea was still popular that husbands acted as breadwinners and wives as housewives, young men did not care much about the fact that their future wives had their own jobs. Girls, however, had a very different standard when they chose their husbands. As many manufacturing and mining enterprises were set up throughout the country, and the movements of Bandit Abolishment, Anti Tyrannical Landlords, and Suppression of Counter-revolutionists were further deepened, excellent workers, miners and militiamen received extra attention from both the central and local governments. They therefore earned themselves a good name among the public. So, in those days, girls in town preferred excellent workers and miners while girls in the country preferred excellent militiamen as their husbands. In the same period, a large number of middle-aged and old military officers were transferred to civilian work. They ![]() Girls working in government offices had a higher standard. Two ballads widely read in those days best reveal a trend. One ballad reads: high level official is the best; county level official is good; regional level official is not bad; lowest level official is impossible. The other reads: He is my future husband who is young and handsome and experienced, who wears an expensive waterproof watch and woolen coat, and who is gentle and soft and mild. Military officers, technicians and workers in sectors of railway transportation and military factories were popular among girls in towns and cities. Military officers were admired by girls for their good treatment, political status and physical condition. In this period, China was building railways in a large scale. Workers in this sector received better pay and welfare than those in other sectors. Besides, wives or husbands and grown-up children could be offered jobs in towns and cities. Young children were entitled to free medical service and a free train journey once a year. All this was something that girls found irresistible. Similarly, technicians and workers in military factories became a temptation because they were even better paid than those in the railway sector. For political reasons, marriages of two kinds of women were seriously affected. They were concubines of the wealthy men and wives of those politically suppressed men. After the ![]() Many of daughters of rich landlords, kulaks, capitalists and enemy's army commanders, who were regarded as anti-revolutionists, had to marry ordinary farmers and workers. As they were politically low and their property had all been elp them survive. But their brothers were often more miserable as few girls would risk becoming their husbands. ![]() In 1950s, marriages of the young in towns and cities started to be decided themselves. Marriages arranged for by parents became rare. The old marriage customs also began to die away.
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